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Xenon
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 Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 12:10 pm Post subject: Do you know anybody who.....? |
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| Do you and your husband/wife know anybody who are swingers? Have they ever hit on you or invited you to hang out with them, knowing what they were hoping for? We were out with some friends the other weekend. The more "vanilla" couples left for home around 10pm but we stayed with 2 other couples for more drinks and to just take a cab home. They warned us not to get all judgemental if we stuck around! After a few shots in the bar the wives started getting VERY friendly with each other. Turns out the four have been swinging for years together! We honestly had no idea! These couples are professionals, have children, live in nice homes, drive nice cars, and are as normal as normal gets. I doubt they would consider themselves "swingers" or "lifestylers" but we're starting to suspect that this is a LOT more common than people admit. Makes us wonder how many swingers are out there who don't consider themselves swingers! Are YOU one of them?I will admit that it makes me look at the wives in a whole new light! Wouldn't say I find them more attractive or more desirable. But it has defintiely changed the dynamics of our friendship with them! And I'd be lying if I said that I won't be a little curious the next time we all get together! |
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yeahoboy
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| Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 6:10 pm Post subject: Do you know anybody who.....? |
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| I think it is very common. People just dont come right out and say it to anyone. We know 2 couples who are swingers and one of the men happens to be a doctor, very successful couples. It's just one of those things that no one knows, maybe in a fear of it ruining their lifestyle and reputation, but becoming very normal. |
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yeahoboy
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| Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 12:10 am Post subject: Do you know anybody who.....? |
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| No, and what is your real point. Didya find it intriguing??? |
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Zabra
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| Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:10 am Post subject: Do you know anybody who.....? |
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| No I don't approuve of the "swinger" relationship. Any way what ever happenned to morals and respecting our marriage vows? Does that have any value anymore ? Marriage is something sacred and should treated as such. I would not cheat on my husband and I would not tolerate him cheating on me LOL swinging ! It's just wrong !! |
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yeahoboy
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| Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 12:10 pm Post subject: Do you know anybody who.....? |
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| I have seen these swingers of Oprah Winfrey show,most of them are highly educated and professionals. They air their secret life on the TV now that their secret life is in the open,I wonder how the are parring with their professional ,family,non sexual social life ? Personality wise ,the women look contented,but bland no make,plain clothes, I guess that is what sport sex does to a person. No I am not one of them,I am single for 8 yrs. now , 2 yrs no sex with sick hubby,10 yrs now I am inactive of sex, I do meditation for that young sexy glowing look.I would rather be addicted to clothes etc. shopping, than addicted to no love sex,my paycheck can not afford social desease. Have a great day !! |
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Ricardo
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There definitely seem to be examples of couples who can handle it well.
To each his own, I guess. Good luck if you're taking the plunge. 
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