Suddenly Sex Confessions

randle · Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538

Has anyone had pain during sex. IT doesn;t happen often just ever once in a while. It usuallly happens when its near my period. My doc said i was fine but Im understanding where it coming from

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

What kind of pain? Is it from not lubricating enough or is it muscle cramp kind of pain. I might be able to identify it for you with more info. And hormone levels around period time can definitely affect your body and how it responds.

randle · Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538

It has been both depending. But most of the time its vaginal. Sometimes I think that its from not lubricating.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

That's usually the source of vaginal pain. You can tell your partner you need more warmup time to get the juices flowing, so to speak, or you can use a lubricant. Sex is no fun when you're not ready for it.

rox · Joined: 04 Sep 2006 Posts: 318

if its right before your period...thats normal.

sometimes i get that, when the penis hits the cervix hard it gives me some pain.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

I encountered more pleasure and enjoyment compared to pain. But sometimes I got rashes.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

Are you getting rashes from condom use? A lot of people have allergies to the latex in condoms. You might have to look for ones that don't have latex.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

You made the right guess QL. Latex in condoms is not compatible to my skin. I easily got rashes. I prefer to have sex without using any condoms.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

There's a downside to that, too, if your partner is sneaking around on you and picking up little nasties that you don't know about. I know there are condoms made from other material because of that allergy. I don't like them, either, and I know my partner is clean and tell him to make sure he uses them if he's with someone else.

kisna · Joined: 21 Oct 2006 Posts: 77

Pain, if you're not new and you're not ill can be because of lack of warmup. You need more juices so talk to you partner.

jampet06 · Joined: 27 Sep 2006 Posts: 69

I do occasionally - it is usually when my feet are on his shoulders. It is like a sharp, almost stabbing pain that makes me want to quit right away. This doesn't happen all of the time, but I'm kind of scared to do that postion, as I've never told my partner that it actually really hurt because I know he would get a complex and stop that postion all together and I don't want that to happen.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

It sounds like a muscle spasm or maybe he's going too deep too fast. Ask him to slow down a little and see if that helps.

kisna · Joined: 21 Oct 2006 Posts: 77

My girlfriend was virgin until I fucked her for the first time. So she had a huge pain she said. She was screaming a lot. I think every girl has that problem.

Crimson · Joined: 11 Sep 2007 Posts: 24

I think every female has that problem at some time or other.
I have experienced slight pain in certain positions, but I believe
it was from him bumping up against my cervix a little too hard.
If it continues, try different positions or experimenting with some lubes.