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randle
Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538
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Posted: Wed Apr 18, 2007 8:16 am Post subject: My boyfriend was on the phone |
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| Ok so I have a question, what if you found your boyfriend playing phone sex when you weren't in the room would you think that he was cheating? I walked in on my boyfriend talking phone sex and I was mad but then i thought about it and it wasn't a big deal at all. |
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myca

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Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 1:50 am Post subject: |
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| I guess that's a big deal in my part. I'll not get mad at him. I'll simply call my ex boyfriend and invite him for a phone sex. I guess it's a fair play so no hurt feelings. |
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aima123
Joined: 31 Jan 2007 Posts: 66
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Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 10:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Well in my part, maybe I will confront him why he did it. And if ever I'm not satisfied his explanations, well that's the time to do the same with my ex-bf probably and let him feel what I feel. |
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myca

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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 12:53 am Post subject: |
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In addition, it's stated in the golden rules. Do not do unto others if you don't want others do unto you. Actually, if your boyfriend truly loves you, he will not do anything that will hurt you. And doing a phone sex with other girl is like having another affair. |
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randle
Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538
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Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2007 7:51 am Post subject: |
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| I don't find it to be cheating. I think that sometime men get complacent with their women. Which is fine. It's like when they go to the strip club. |
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QuietLunatic
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Posted: Fri Apr 27, 2007 7:53 am Post subject: |
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| A lot of it depends on the rest of your relationship, too, and how it's going. So much is tied up on how we look at it. |
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myca

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Posted: Fri Apr 27, 2007 4:52 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="randle"]I don't find it to be cheating. I think that sometime men get complacent with their women. Which is fine. It's like when they go to the strip club.[/quote]
You're right randle. But in my case, I don't deserve to be cheated. In addition, I never allowed my man to go strip club without me.  |
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randle
Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 9:06 am Post subject: |
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| Really? why is that. Thats a place for men to relax and get away from you. Then he comes home and fucks your brains out. |
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MHJ
Joined: 01 Mar 2007 Posts: 48
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Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2007 5:53 pm Post subject: |
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| For what its worth, I don't consider it cheating as much as I think it is half cheating..if that makes any sense |
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Ricardo

Joined: 28 Aug 2006 Posts: 656
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 11:20 am Post subject: |
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If you were cool with him doing the phone sex, maybe you could have got naked and started getting busy with him.
Some people would just turn it around like that, but obviously not if they were upset in the first place. _________________ http://this-twisted-history.blogspot.com/ |
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kisna
Joined: 21 Oct 2006 Posts: 77
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Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 10:40 am Post subject: |
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| I've done it several times when my girlfriend is out for some days. I don't think its cheating. I should have something else when my girl is not with me. |
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