Suddenly Sex Confessions

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

Okay, so I'm on the fence right now about whether or not I want to have a talk with my partner about commitment. We have a good relationship and we get along better than any other people I know, and sometimes I want us to say "okay, I wanna be with you" and be a recognized couple rather than just friends, and then I get iffy about it and wonder if I really do want that or not.

My motto has always been: when in doubt, don't.
So I probably won't bring it up today, but sooner or later we need to make a decision on where we're going and if we want to go there together. Our relationship is odd. Good, but odd.

Ricardo · Joined: 28 Aug 2006 Posts: 656

Best of luck with that, QuietLunatic.

Hopefully you'll both be on the same page, and you can go from there.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

I know how his mind works (some of the time) and he's big on "if it ain't broke, don't fix it", and what we have is very good. I think he might consider tinkering with it by making that commitment right now might be a bad thing, but I think we might be headed that way in our own fashion. He was away last weekend and when he came over on Tuesday it was really nice to get the hug and kiss at the door and just have a bit of time together. He's going to shave off his beard, but promised me I could take pics first, so I'll get my daughter to get one of us together. He really is so much fun to be with, no matter what we're doing.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

There's only one thing I want you to know QuietLunatic. Follow your heart's desire as long as it gives you hapiness and satisfaction. More power to you!

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

Thanks, Myca. For the past almost five years, my heart has kept me close to this man. I think he's worth waiting for and being patient with, and he has been very good for me in many ways. I'll keep hanging in there.

randle · Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538

You aren't ready for it yet because you are doubting it. I would personally advise you to not make any moves until you're actually sure about what you wish to do.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

I think when the time is right for both of us, it'll all come together. He's been so good for me in many different ways, and I know I want him around for the rest of my life, one way or another.