Suddenly Sex Confessions

wendy · Joined: 06 Sep 2006 Posts: 73

Now this is something I love and while it may not be full on BDSM it certainly has the overtones.

I love being tied up and fantasize about it often. But usually the person doing the tying up is very umm...experienced in knowing what I like in my fantasies. I guess you get that LOL.

In reality it is difficult to get the time and privacy to get into it completely.

But I hold hopes it will happen, and soon...

How about everyone else, ever tied or been tied or would you like to try it? tell me the story, good, bad and ugly

Wendy
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jerry davis · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 45

But don't always have the proper set and setting,
however my latest partner is very patient and is putting up with a bit of experimentation on my part.....

wendy · Joined: 06 Sep 2006 Posts: 73

yes it sure does take a patient and understanding partner sometimes.
Glad to hear you are getting a little experimentation time. Feel free to fill us in on any details LOL
Wendy
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Ricardo · Joined: 28 Aug 2006 Posts: 656

I haven't experienced it, but my curiosity was aroused when I watched a TV series called "Kink."

I'd definitely be up for it.

the glyphon · Joined: 13 Sep 2006 Posts: 90

I had a guy loosely tie me before and I was willing to go along with it as an occasional thing. I found it didn't do anything for me at all. I don't have that kind of fantasy and would probably rather be a 'tier' than a 'tie-ee'

wendy · Joined: 06 Sep 2006 Posts: 73

Ah yes the dominant one. Well maybe you could try that one day and compare the experiences. There a lots of BDSM materials you could look at and see if it sparked a certain interest in you
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jampet06 · Joined: 27 Sep 2006 Posts: 69

I have actually been handcuffed to the bed. I thought it was amazing and really enjoyed it and still fantasize about it. I loved not being in control. Actually had crazy little sensations I've never felt before because I was so into it.

bee_lady · Joined: 15 Sep 2006 Posts: 254

I don't know if this counts, but I am tied...

Since my hubby and I split (I moved out), we've been having conjugal visits at my place. Since my daughter is here most of the time, most of our sex takes place in the laundry room.

I sit on the washer and he goes down on me (and does other things too... Wink

). Well, he usually eats pussy like it's a gourmet, 5 course meal, so it takes him a while. Cool

I got tired of holding my legs up so we came up with the idea of tying my legs to the laundry shelf above my head.

He ties them just tight enough that I can't jerk them down when it gets to feeling really good. (We had that experience and it wasn't pleasant but it was kinda funny.)

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

I was tied in coconut tree by my stupid lover before. I was naked in the dark. My lover was naked too. We made love in a standing position. It took us an hour to do that stupid thing. I promise to myself not to do it again because we were nearly caught by our neighbor. Good for me because there were no ants in the tree. If you want to try it, go on just choose the best tree free from ants.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

My partner isn't into pain, and neither am I, but we both don't mind being gently tied up and helpless while the other does whatever fun things come to mind.

AnchorsAway · Joined: 02 Sep 2006 Posts: 131

[quote="the glyphon"]I had a guy loosely tie me before and I was willing to go along with it as an occasional thing. I found it didn't do anything for me at all. I don't have that kind of fantasy and would probably rather be a 'tier' than a 'tie-ee'[/quote]

I think I'm the opposite... when I think about the subject, I imagine how it would be to be tied, while a lady has her way with my body.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

Do you think there's a disadvantage of being tied up during sex? Sometimes I'm annoyed because I can't do whatever I wanted to do. In sex, I always want to express myself.

AnchorsAway · Joined: 02 Sep 2006 Posts: 131

That's the part that seems exciting to me... I feel as if my partner would get very creative and focused on my pleasure, knowing she was in control of both our actions.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

Okay, I'm definitely going to look through my collection of silk scarves and bring them over to my partner's house the next time his mother goes away (yes he lives with his mother to keep her company since his father died some years ago). She wouldn't appreciate the noises from his bedroom, which is right off the TV room, I'm sure. LOL.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

Don't you have any other location where you can do your slik scarves activities QuietLunatic? What if your partner's mother will not go away? You must have other alternatives. Laughing

randle · Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538

You got to do all that crazy stuff at a hotel room unless you get off on the idea that she might walk in on you doing it.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

My bed doesn't have any parts I can tie him to, although I'm thinking the bed in the spare room might. Hmmm. My kids might look at us weird if we go up there, but they know we have a sexual relationship. I could put the scarves in the dresser in that room so they won't know about that part. LOL.

randle · Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538

WOw they should be sleep by the time you get ready to do all that. So they shouldn't see the scarfs, unless they are grown then thats a different story. Thats cute.