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rox · Joined: 04 Sep 2006 Posts: 318

i know i am definetly old enough to date who i want.
but this guy means alot to me...and i know i mean alot to him, because hes taking the relationship really seriously, and letting people know that i am his girlfriend...after a breakup with his ex,..that he was with for 14 years..

anyway.

he is 30 years my senior!...but i love him. i love him so much,
im gonna have to tell my parents about him. and his age.
any words of encouragement?

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

Hey Rox! Go girl!

Do what makes you happy. Follow what your heart whispered. You can tell your parents in a nice way. They may have negative or positive reaction, nothing to worry about it. Truth is painful but it will stes you free. Goodluck to you!

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30 years is alot of years. I don't know how old you are rox?? An age separation like that may bring many troubles down the road for sure. Would love you to post your experiences here for us all to learn from. I recently split up with a person 14 years my senior and there was too many differences of what we wanted to do in our daily life that broke us.

I think rox should pick an avatar that relates to her, cause so many of us relate to her too!. I'm going to send her some "suddenly sex" t-shirts n stuff if she wants.
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rox · Joined: 04 Sep 2006 Posts: 318

[quote="suddenly"]30 years is alot of years. I don't know how old you are rox?? An age separation like that may bring many troubles down the road for sure. Would love you to post your experiences here for us all to learn from. I recently split up with a person 14 years my senior and there was too many differences of what we wanted to do in our daily life that broke us.

I think rox should pick an avatar that relates to her, cause so many of us relate to her too!. I'm going to send her some "suddenly sex" t-shirts n stuff if she wants.[/quote]

i'm 23 years old, and he is 54. SAME AGE AS MY MOM!.......
i know there will be problems down the road..i half-jokingly brought up kids and you shouldve seen his face.... it was Neutral

so that led to some sort of fight where i let him know im sacrificing alot to be with him..anyway.

and i will choose an avatar don't you worry.....
and those tshirts sound pretty sweet ;P

YOU'RE SO SWEET SUDDENLY!

bee_lady · Joined: 15 Sep 2006 Posts: 254

Rox, I'm not advocating deception, but a little cat and mouse might make it easier to break it to your parents.

I say there's no need to bring up your honey's age. When it comes time to meet your parents (it will be easier if you wait until they ask), keep mum on his age. Unless you think them not knowing before hand will lead to hard feeelings on their part.

You might be able to get away with a remark like "Oh I think you all will have a lot in common".

If they remark on his age later, you can fall back on the "a lot in common" comment.

If you don't think that will work, take some time to reallllllllllly think about what you should do and then follow your intuition.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

If I were you Rox, follow your heart desires. If you really wanna be with him, ignore his age and fight for him. It's challenging.