Suddenly Sex Confessions

jerry davis · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 45

The thing I like most about women is the remarkable variety of orgasms they have, I've never met two women who come just alike.....

And the tricks I've learned to keep them going over the top, well thats a whole 'nother thread!

Cool

Bettina · Joined: 15 Sep 2006 Posts: 53

Baby it you tell me yr secrets for getting a girl off, I'll tell you some of mine for getting a guy off.

suddenly · Posted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 10:24 am Post subject: getting a girl or guy off

Now this I want to here. Come on you two, share some secrets Razz

I'm sure everyone will learn something here. I know that every woman I was with loves to have the clitoris sucked on. Many different ways though as some like it gentle and some like some vacuum action.

jerry davis · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 45

Is to get them to masturbate for you.....Look 'em in the eyes and tell 'em how much you like to watch 'em cum...

Then you can learn how they like to move thier fingers.....

Very Happy

jerry davis · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 45

A little light toungue tickling goes a long way...

Less is more when it comes to licking clit.......Combine with proper finger technique (slowly around the entrance, then some evenly spaced deep thrusts, hooking onto the g-spot)

Alternate.....Hard sucking and fingers on the vulva, then light tongue tickling and deep, hard finger action.....

Above all, listen and pay attention...

when in doubt...SLOW DOWN!

Never increase the pressure or intensity unless you are sure she's very close to going over the top.....

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

Have you tried the combination techniques of fingers? There is nothing that gets her wetter faster than using a combination of both hands. Have your fingers from one hand playing with her clitoris, stimulating it however she wish. Take the other hand and place two or three fingers inside her vagina and begin thrusting. Basically you’re simulating intercourse with this action and it works rather nicely in tandem with the clitoral stimulation and can bring her to a rocking orgasm! Try this and it's very effective. Actually, combination is my favorite techniques during masturbation. You can try it if you want.

paris · Joined: 25 Sep 2006 Posts: 101

Less is so much more. I swear when my man does less I get off way faster then with him being so rough.

AnchorsAway · Joined: 02 Sep 2006 Posts: 131

This is truly my favorite part of being close to a lady. But the important part comes long before I even get to her clit, and this thread is simply ignoring the most passionate and important part of the experience for me, so I feel I must add my two cents.

I generally start with lots of slow, passionate mouth and facial kissing, then slowly work my way down. If there's any clothing to be removed, doing so becomes part of the venture. Just as I'm getting close to reaching her p****, I go down to her ankles, then slowly work my way up. As I once again get close, just when she expects it's time for the long-awaited oral, I draw it out some more, tenderly carressing and kissing her around her inner thighs and vag***, increasing the anticipation.

When I finally make my way in, with both fingers and tongue, her clit and surrounding area are so sensitive and heightened, it's easy to tell from reaction where the hotspots are.

Patience is truly key to oral on a woman.

This is truly the difference between sex and making love for me. Sorry to be so blatantly descriptive, but I can tell I'm not the first to do so on these boards.

bee_lady · Joined: 15 Sep 2006 Posts: 254

Yes Coda! Lots of passionate kissing is one of the keys for me. Especially in public. It gets the anticipation flowing. Very Happy

I also like it when my husband is playful while he's going down on me.

Before he gets started, he opens my lips and blows on me, like he's blowing off dust. That cracks me up every time.

paris · Joined: 25 Sep 2006 Posts: 101

I like kissing to. its just something about the whole kissing thing that makes me so wet.

AnchorsAway · Joined: 02 Sep 2006 Posts: 131

[quote="bee_lady"]
I also like it when my husband is playful while he's going down on me.

Before he gets started, he opens my lips and blows on me, like he's blowing off dust. That cracks me up every time.[/quote]

Yes indeed, laughter and playfulness are always delightful... for me, it increases the intimacy.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

[quote="paris"]I like kissing to. its just something about the whole kissing thing that makes me so wet.[/quote]

Kissing is significant for me. It feels good especially with a combination of tonque to tonque. Have you tried that?

randle · Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538

Thats just like saying our finger prints are the same. I think ever women will cum different in their own way.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

My partner sometimes puts one finger up my ass, and another finger or his thumb in my pussy and does cool things that way. Very stimulating.