Suddenly Sex Confessions

randle · Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538

My boyfriend wants to try having anal sex and i'm not really into that not because its gros or anything like that. I just don't like pain. I find it hard to even attempt to take it in the ass. No matter how much I try to relax, It just doesnt feel good.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

Don't worry randle because you're not alone. My asshole is still virgin until now. I can't stand the pain when the penis slowly entered into it eventhough there's a wax, lotion or oil.

Ricardo · Joined: 28 Aug 2006 Posts: 656

Do you ladies enjoy a finger inserted there?

Sometimes the muscles tighten involuntarily, and it takes a while to accept a finger, then two, then who knows?

randle · Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538

It just doesnt feel goo to me, I really can go without the whole ass sex thing. I would rather keep it simple. I wonder sometimes why men actually like to do it in the ass in the first place.

Ricardo · Joined: 28 Aug 2006 Posts: 656

That question's popped up in another thread. I think it's partly the tightness, the taboo factor and plus it's very intimate.

I wonder why some women enjoy it?

bwilsonwriter · Joined: 09 Apr 2007 Posts: 61

I know. Doing anal sex is very painful and that is why when my man want to do it to me from my arse I keep telling him to do it very nice and soft or else he is getting a punished from me, and usually he obey but when he doesnt it ouch the anal sex hurts Shocked

randle · Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538

I dont have time to be in pain when all Im trying to do is cumm. I want to try it but at the same time, he is big so that does nothing for me but turn me off to the idea.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

In my case, my man's dick is huge. I can't imagine the pain if ever we will have anal sex. For sure it really hurts. I don't want to suffer such thing. The feeling is like your having a constipation.

randle · Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538

Thats exactly what it is, I;m not even trying to go through something that is not needed. If I don't have to go through it then i choose to opt out.

rox · Joined: 04 Sep 2006 Posts: 318

usually anal sex hurts the first time, the second time...but usually after the fifteenth time...its ok..lol!!

make sure you use a lot of lube.

seriously. i get no pleasure from it..
plus the other down side to it is urinary infections!!!

if he inserts his dick in my ass..then in my puss......i can very easily get an infection.
make sure you pee afterwards.

randle · Joined: 13 Mar 2007 Posts: 538

See that is what I dont want to have to go through, I know that. so i wonder something if that hasn't happened to me before but i get a urinary tract infection of some sort should i think my man is gay.

bwilsonwriter · Joined: 09 Apr 2007 Posts: 61

[quote="rox"]usually anal sex hurts the first time, the second time...but usually after the fifteenth time...its ok..lol!!

make sure you use a lot of lube.

seriously. i get no pleasure from it..
plus the other down side to it is urinary infections!!!

if he inserts his dick in my ass..then in my puss......i can very easily get an infection.
make sure you pee afterwards.[/quote]
I agreed about that anal sex hurts the first time around using lube yes indeed.