Suddenly Sex Confessions

wendy · Joined: 06 Sep 2006 Posts: 73

So is great sex a major attraction to you in a relationship. Would you end a relationship over less than satisfying sex?

Sex is important to me, but I do have to be attracted to the person for many other reasons to get involved. Simply a great sex life alone is not enough. I do like a little personality attached to a penis!

Plus once the heat of the initial relationship has gone there needs to be lot of underlying factors to keep it alive.

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suddenly · Posted: Fri Sep 22, 2006 3:03 pm Post subject: I like to cuddle...

I love a night that has some really cool breazes.

I have cheated, not too proud. Now i have a bad name. who has not cheated?

the glyphon · Joined: 13 Sep 2006 Posts: 90

I haven't cheating but then I am very rarely in a relationship that is committed enough to have the chance. I pretty much prefer to be single.

bee_lady · Joined: 15 Sep 2006 Posts: 254

No, I wouldn't end a relationship over sex that wasn't totally hot. But if there were other issues, that sex thing sure would be a heavy burden to drag around. LOL

wendy · Joined: 06 Sep 2006 Posts: 73

I agree. I have had a relationship like that and it really did become the straw that broke the camel's back in the end.
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jampet06 · Joined: 27 Sep 2006 Posts: 69

I would end a relationship if the sex wasn't good after chance after chance (especially if the man didn't try..was just out to get his).

Personally, it is a huge part of the relationship and there are too many ways to satisfy your partner for it to be terrible, in my opinion.

I think it is better to end right away though, than waiting...because that is what drives people to cheat in the long-term. Lack of sex, bad sex, zero sex. It's like everything else, if you aren't 100% happy, why bother sticking with the relationship? I'd be walking around in a bad mood all day.

Thank goodness I got lucky with the man I am with. Wink

ozzie · Joined: 30 Sep 2006 Posts: 4

Wendy, I agree that there needs to be more to a relationship than just sex for me to be interested at all. I need to feel other good things about the person I'm involved with.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

Virtues are very important in a relationship. We can't live in sex alone. In a relationship love and care for each other is needed. Sex is only a part of love. But if you are expert in making love, it helps to make your relationship last forever.

geline · Joined: 04 Sep 2006 Posts: 97 Location: Philippines

I agree with Myca. Use love over lust. Sex has been given by God to add to the love of married couples which is the reason that sex is forbidden before marriage... so that the two couples will find their relationship as a way to get to know without being deceived and misinterpreting their love as lust. In any way, be smart in your decisions. Learn to distinguish love and lust and not only that... see the man in another person's eyes... does he really love you and not just using you? How is he as a person... will he make a good husband? These are some of the most important things that one must consider other than sex. Well, of course, if he's that good as a person and in bed, then much better, get in!
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myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

In relationship, there's a need for both of you to know the art of sex. if you lack knowledge about it, there's a tendency that you're man will look for another partner just to satisfy sexual needs.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

My partner suffers from erectile dysfunction, which really bothers him because intercourse is not always possible. I don't care. He does wonderful things with his hands and his mouth and I always have a good time when we're naked together. We're not in a committed relationship (yet), but I can't see ever dropping him because of the ED. I enjoy HIM--he's reasonably intelligent, he's fun to be with, we like the same books and movies and TV shows, we have good conversations, we go to the same church, we volunteer in the same places and work well as a team...with or without sex, I like being with him.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

I haven't encountered having a sex with a man suffering from erectile dysfunction. I can't imagine how to deal with it. Are you still with him QuietLUnatic?

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

Oh absolutely. There's no one else I'd rather be with. I discovered that he can ejaculate without getting hard, so I can give him oral sex and get him off and he does fun things to me and it's all good. When he does get hard, that is really nice and we have a great time. It's all a part of who he is: he's diabetic, overweight and not as young as he used to be (but neither am I, so that's fine), and we can't expect his body to work the way it did when he was young.

myca · Joined: 11 Sep 2006 Posts: 1150

Wow! I'm proud of you QuietLunatic. I think you're a good fighter. Hope I also have enough courage to face trials in life.

QuietLunatic · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 455

It's probably just part of being as old as I am, myca, and all the things I've been through in my life. ED is nothing, especially when the man in question is one of the nicest ones to cuddle with I've ever met. Smile